Sometimes people come into your life and you know right
away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you
a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You
never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor,
co-worker, longest friend, lover, or even a complete stranger) but when you
lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your
life in some profound way.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom. Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon. They stay in our lives for a while, leave footprints in our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem
horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without
overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential,
strength, willpower, or heart. Everything happens for a reason, nothing happens
by chance or by means of luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true
greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly
paved, straight flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but
dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life and the
success and downfalls you experience help to create who you become.
Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact,
they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart,
forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of
being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back
unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are
teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
Make every day count! Appreciate every moment and take
from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able
to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before,
and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights
high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are
a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in
yourself; it will be hard for others to believe in you.
I thought this was beautiful in way, I found this on a website but the author seems to be unknown. Although, I feel it is just inspiring and it reminds us that we are learning from every experience thrown at us, good and bad.
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